Interesting that you bring this topic up today of all days...
I am 100% behind this though, it is fantastic way to feel good in FG. Unfortunately, as much I would love to, I don't think I can commit to a fixed amount every month but I will try to remember to donate at the end of the month if/when I can
With respect to your list, in order
1) I never thought of it before as I just clicked the donate button. It has been a while since I've done so things may have changed but if you send it as a gift / to a friend or whatever it is called then there are no fees on it either end I don't think you can set it up to do it every month though.
2) & 3) I think these are a good point and maybe the most important ones. No-one should feel obligated to give more than they want or to every gift / collection.
4) I agree, you are the Commander in Chief of FG and as such should have final say.