Figured I would bump this up and update on this. After months of talking and doing "this and that" I finally put a nail in the coffin today. She still is crazy, 20 years has not changed that. One of my friends said it best to me a few weeks ago....An Ex is an Ex for a reason. I never should have even started opening the door to her again to begin with, but now I have closed the door, locked it and put out the "crazy bitch keep out" sign.
Cut off all contact with her, deleted her phone #, deleted her off FB, and made sure the dome over "Stevetopia" has no holes in it for any further security breches