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Not going to go to in depth but my wife of 8 years which we've been together for almost 21 years has really screwed me over. What she's done is morally wrong to throw away 21 years two kids aged 15 and 18 we've so much history and been through so much all gone. Most of my friends locally have either passed moved away my family know what's happened and only a hand full check in on me and they're not even my immediate family. Which brings me to you guys the FG GT guys know what's happened I've spoken to a couple through different message formats but the support I've gotten is far more than people around me locally for that I thank you and to anyone that's in any party chat that doesn't even know what's happened. If it weren't for you guys and FG I wouldn't be feeling how I am now and most likely still in a mess. It's only been a month since I found out but all I care about is my kids getting a place once they house is sold next year which we've only had for 2 years. I promise I won't bore you lot with my troubles much in chats as i must sound like a broken record 😂 but again thank you guys it means the world to me the support I've had off you.

Damn, man. Hopefully, things work out with the house. I'm sorry to hear about your friend. That's a rough patch for sure. 😕

A little update. I stated the house was not to go on the market till after the new year so a couple of weeks ago a mate called me saying the house was on the market she had put it up for sale behind my back saying to the estate agents and our estate agent that I said it was ok so they were pretty pissed off but they've said it won't sell till February which I've said that's ok as long as it is that month anytime before I won't sign as I need to find my own place. Last weekend I lost a mate to AML leukaemia he battled it for 3 years back in July they said there was nothing else they could do for him. But I'm doing ok just planning my future once I get a place.

Good racing last night and looks like, with one race left, a Kiwi will take the championship. The last race will be three laps around the Nordschleife, so that will be a laugh. When the league finishes I might do something to keep us going until GT7. I was thinking of doing a fun championship where everyone has to use the Mazda Roadster with boost and high slipstream on tracks we don't usually use (short courses for example).

You're a good bloke Paul and we're lucky to have you as one of the gang 😘👊

You've been through a hell of a lot lately Paul, and none of it was what you wanted. I'm just glad for you that there was a place like this place that could be there for you when you didn't even know you needed it. I don't think any of my words say better what FG is all about than your post. Keep strong buddy. I firmly believe your life, in time, will get better. And thank you for being a key part of the FG Family, dude ❤ P.S. For what its worth, I think Tommy is spot on. We'll always be here to talk to, but also getting private therapy will be even more beneficial for you. The more people help you talk about it, the more it doesn't weigh on your mind every day.

Sorry to hear about that dude, I haven't been on many games lately to speak with you but you are a legend and a gentlemen! Keep your head up and keep them platinum's raining down lol Well done FG! again I can't get enough of how good this group is. Roll the fuck on November 2022!

FG = a microcosm of the world, but populated by people who care Take care fella 👍❤️

Hey fella first of all I'm sure others would agree you can bore us all in the chat all you want if it helps. Also some of us may have gone through something similar a d just sharing stories may also help (I've got some good ones 😉) one "good" thing I guess is the kids involved are older but good luck moving forward and hope you get settled and sorted out Asap.

I'm glad you've found a supportive community during this difficult time man. This place isn't like any other I've ever come across. It's the real deal. I hope you can come out on the other side of all of this in a better place. I'd definitely recommend going to see someone if you can. Therapy is invaluable.