Kyle I still play both, I read what others have said and agree with most of it, bo2 was the best cod to date for me but only because of hc , I liked mw3 too I was a cod fanboy, but ghosts is a disappointment for me no challenges loved the challenges in bo2, no point playing objectives unless you want to die constantly, prestiging is even pointless as you just go buy all the classes, I will still play it I've bought the season pass, but I've found I just avoid the half the maps and hope the dlc maps are more fun.
As for bf4 kyle I was there and agree we both needed Chris and euans help to even get started, I nearly gave up on the game when I started I had a 0.4 kd I only play Dom fast paced gun on gun no vehicles to bother with and when you start to unlock stuff it gets easier my kd is now up to 0.93 someone with your skill should have no probs picking it up given a little time.
I will however keep playing both, ghosts isn't unplayable to me, especially with others, a friend of mine just got it with his ps4 and he sucks