It is both User Resources, and Server Resources
Partially money, but not really
The thing to keep in mind is that you guys were breaking the server with a very minimal mod (Project E), you start adding in AE, or Industrial Craft, or Build Craft, which you need, as AE as a Stand alone doesn't work, and the server will continually break
Not to mention I would have to wipe the world, again
not to mention, your Laptop most likely wouldn't run all of this. Others could, but I have doubts about your machine.