Steve,
Long story short... my wife lost her right eye to a form of skin cancer 8 years ago. All clear up until a couple of months ago when we saw bad skin signs in the empty socket which turned out to be malignant melanoma again.
We're now in the final stages of getting this sorted again but, where as last time we didn't now what was coming, this time we do and it has been getting stressful for both of us
I needed to unburden myself a bit and did one night in a game session and also on WhatsApp. Everyone was really supportive which really meant a lot, even to an oldie like me, and I thought no more of it until the flowers turned up today.
Like I said earlier, a really good bunch of people <3