It really is alot easier said than done. It's also alot easier to say when you (in general) aren't here experience it first-hand at the moment. (Again. In general.)For example...
My mom makes around 800 every 2 weeks (minus the 300 or so in garnishing), my pay can differ from anywhere from 265 to 100 dollars (Im on an on-call basis at Jack In The Box -.- EDIT yes I have tried getting another job. No one is hiring, even construction ), and the rent goes for 1250 a month (not including water and electricity). Factor in gas and getting enough groceries to feed a family of 5, and you got yourself a pickle. We always cut back on expenses to try to pay off everything best we can, but for christs sake, that's like putting a band-aid on a decapitation.
(If I leave for college atm, everyone's screwed)
I'm very sure some guys here have had it rougher than me, but to get to my point...
No, most poor people arent looking for a hand outs or a free meal, although seriously, it would be a nicer alternative than fighting for your life (in First World terms).
A more lenient hand pushing us down to drown would be great, though.
/if my posts come off as whiny when refering to my situation, sorry.
I thought thats what friends were for? To share problems with a listening ear?
I doubt your post was specifically aimed at me though.